Love Aaj Kal....is this love???

LOVE has a big meaning.It does mean responsibility of some one's heart on you.An eternal promise...Crap crap crap.Don't i sound old?

I know that these things are not relevant in today's context.So lets get practical.We are today's Generation.The new millennium lovers.We are intellectual heart lenders,not emotional fools.Right?We don't want to be remembered as all time favourites.We have so much to manage,and so less time.So much that Pizzas,Credit cards,traffic,Http,social network,college,work,family,and every other small thing makes our life so busy and so involved that we hardly get time for love.Every one is aware of live-in,Who cares about tears and smile?Who sheds tears now-a-days,anyways?

Today,Love has just become a pact.An agreement.You are my boyfriend,You are supposed to do this, take me for dinner,call me,text me,add "luv u baby" at the end of every sentence,buy me the latest outfit etc.You are my girlfriend;you gotta understand i am busy,I am at work,I don't have time...The most common complaint from either sides..."U don't understand". It has become the catch phrase of the generation,I tell you...

The influence of western culture is a setback to the stability of modern day relationships.Partners are swapped as fast as ATM cards.One doesn't understand that if she/he couldn't be his/hers,how can she/he be mine?I love her today,Another one tomorrow,I am single the next day and i like another one the day after.Is this Love???The most important feature of love is commitment.If i have committed to someone,I have to fulfil it at any cost.Who thinks this way these days?

Why do you love the one you love?If you have an answer,you probably need to rethink.Don't involve your intellect in reasoning out things in every sphere.The problem of varied permutations and combinations of mates is due to this "intellectual" thinking.The time we start comparing our mates to others,we are at a loss.No one in the world is the ultimate person.Like the best boy/girl in the world.So why compare when we have the best with us.I give you a tip.The one you love should be beyond comparison for you.Never compare your love to anyone else.

Today love is limited to Cybercafes,Parks,restaurants,pubs and hotel Rooms(!)...and the heart..It still is empty.It needs time to think.Today one looks at the wallet of the potential mate before committing,so is that love?Gone are the days when one smile was all that did the trick.The magic.Never judge your partner on these basis.Follow your heart.Maybe you'll make a mistake,But you won't regret!Love shouldn't be treated as an opportunity of physical intimacy or monetary gain.Rather understanding your mate.Giving him/her one good reason to feel good.To feel that They are the one for you.That they are loved.That they are important to you.Tax returns may require an urgent action,a hug for your sad and distressed partner is emergency.

Oh I have a girlfriend.How manly does one boast of having a girlfriend.Is this necessary?You should share some things with your friends,but is it necessary to show it off by talking all personal stuff sitting in a group?Keep your love personal.One shouldn't use one's partner as a status symbol.

Love is a delicacy of feelings,a mosaic of sentiments.Feel the love.Be a fool.Dance in the rain,call without a reason,sing madly,laugh uncontrollably,gift silly things,write strange ballads,plan surprises,cry with your "one",hold the hand,lean in,look into the eyes and say "I love you.I really do".