Thursday, December 23, 2010

Match Fixed:Arrange my Love!!!

I assume that you have fallen,or will fall in love after reading my previous article,and you are kinda desperate to get your "one" in your life.So you want to marry him/her,probably in the nearest possible future.Now you look into the present Indian society and you see plenty of hurdles in your track,jump over them or take a short cut????

To elope is easy,to convince everyone is difficult.Human tendency:take it easy.Because the problems are too many:different caste,different religion,fussy relatives,earning is less,etc etc.So elope...

Why elope?Why stand against every one when you can stand with them?

When you fell in love with some one,you found them the best.So why do you hesitate to make your own family realise that the one you love is the best for you?That you can be merry with only that "one".That a known ass is better than an unknown horse.C'Mon.Think over it.

Have faith on yourself.That you can have everyone on board.For a moment think about your parents.They have brought you up with so many tribulations,giving you more than all you need,providing you with all small happiness,so why will they deny you of the biggest happiness for you???If they don't understand,make them understand.Tell them "we could have run away,but we didn't only because i am not wrong".Don't be afraid,to tell them of your love.Fear is when you are wrong.

You are an epitome of respect for your parents,preserve it with care.Do not let your acts let them down.

Take time.Wait for the right time.Be patient.Do not hurry.Most importantly don't impose your choice.Instead of informing them,ask them.It will take time.But before that make yourself worthy of convincing.Any parent wants that their child gets the best possible mate for them.Be the best.Try to come up to all expectations.All of you are intelligent to understand what i mean.Convert hurdles into stairs.

Have pride in your choice.

An arranged love marriage is the best possible marriage.Pomp,show,happiness and most importantly satisfaction.As customers,we don't buy articles or products,we buy satisfaction.So why not achieve satisfaction.Satisfied kinsmen on either sides will be more pleasurable than cops hunting for you.

Remember marriage is a social function,it should not be conducted at the court!!!

1 comment:

  1. aakash
    I really appreciate your this writing..very nicely said marriage is a social function, should not be conducted in court...marriage means to devote yourself to him/her to whom u gonna forever or at least in this birth..so select your love gently and be fearless....as choice is yours...
    waise main bhi talas kar raha hoon!!
    from
    cheetah(pehchan gaya hoga)

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